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Former freelancer bothering me?

prestonhunter
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Preston H Member Since: Nov 24, 2014
21 of 25

I'm not telling anybody who or when to block.

 

But the ability to block people in the Upwork messenger tool is really awesome!

 

I could tell you a number of stories - some funny, and some that are just kind of pathetic - about freelancers who I blocked.

 

After posting dozens of jobs and hiring over 80 different Upwork freelancers, my experience has been this:

The overwhelming majority of Upwork freelancers are really great! Genuinely skilled. Honest. Professional people. Upwork provides a great service in making it possible for clients to find them.

 

But a small percentage of Upwork freelancers are real pests, or out-right scammers.

 

Some people definitely should be blocked - and blocked quickly. And doing so makes my life better.

sergio-soria
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Sergio S Member Since: Dec 19, 2017
22 of 25

Maybe he has a crush on you? I have read weird stories about that, not here but in LinkedIn. Some people just don't know how to behave professionally.

tlsanders
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Tiffany S Member Since: Jan 15, 2016
23 of 25

Martina P wrote:

The chance I'm living in the same building with somebody I felt stalked by on upwork are slim to non-existent, but thanks for asking...


I'm guessing you're intentionally misstating my point, because you can't possibly have believed that's what I meant.

 

What if someone who lived in your building violated your boundaries by asking how you were occasionally? How would you handle that, with no block feature in real life?

martina_plaschka
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Martina P Member Since: Jul 11, 2018
24 of 25

Tiffany S wrote:

Martina P wrote:

The chance I'm living in the same building with somebody I felt stalked by on upwork are slim to non-existent, but thanks for asking...


I'm guessing you're intentionally misstating my point, because you can't possibly have believed that's what I meant.

 

What if someone who lived in your building violated your boundaries by asking how you were occasionally? How would you handle that, with no block feature in real life?


That would be on the range of a friendly response, chat, or invitation to coffee, to going to police for a restraining order, depending on my perception of threat-level. 

yitwail
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John K Member Since: Feb 17, 2015
25 of 25

Christina W wrote:
Thank you all for taking the time to respond!

Yes, the contract was closed as soon as he completed it and got paid for it.

Sounds like it's not that uncommon then and that it may even be somewhat encouraged by Upwork. Which is something I suspected but didn't know for sure. I actually think it's a good idea to keep in touch with clients, but it has to have a purpose and context.

Christina, maybe I'm the exception, but I've never tried to keep in touch with clients, and certainly not the ones with a closed contract. I'm also not aware that Upwork *encourages* freelancers to do so, but that's not to say there isn't some Upwork tutorial that recommends doing so.

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