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April's avatar
April L Community Member

Please stop asking me to skype!!

Hi guys,

Do all of the applicants to your job posts ask to skype? 
I always post simple jobs, and lots of the applicants ask to skype without even saying hello!

Are they trying to change the terms of the contract, or do you think this is genuine and they want to discuss?
I have had misex experiences, some have been fine on skype, and others have asked for more money directly.

Would love your opinions!

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Delwar's avatar
Delwar H Community Member

From my experience: usually, clients asks for freelancer's skype to discuss the project. 

 

If you're not comfortable, ignore them. 

 

 

Teddy's avatar
Teddy C Community Member

Hi April,

 

I usually do not ask for a client's skype. While a bold move, I imagine that might be too assertive, for a first time meet, for a lot of clients.

 

Like Delwar, I am accustomed to the client asking me to add them on skype for further discussions.

 

Regards,

Teddy

Preston's avatar
Preston H Community Member

April,

I totally agree. It is inappropriate for contractors to do this. It is a bad habit.

 

Contractors should understand that I might skip their application altogether if they do this.

April's avatar
April L Community Member

I'm glad you agree it's strange Preston.

I do just skip their applications too, I just find it strange that out of 50 bids, 30 will start with that same sentence...

Maybe it's a cultural thing as they generally are all from India or Pakistan. I am happy to discuss and ignore being called Sir, but I think most applicants need to realise the difference between small quick jobs and larger ones that actually need a skype call initiated by the CLIENT.

Sorry for the rant 🙂

Garnor's avatar
Garnor M Community Member

Thanks for sharing April. We generally encourage freelancers to seek out an interview with prospective clients, but really only after an introduction and as part of a detailed proposal. I appreciate you and others on this thread sharing the perspective so we can consider this as we update/modify the tips and best practice info we provide for freelancers and clients.

April's avatar
April L Community Member

Thank you Garnor.
Another bad practice I have often noticed, is that freelancers say they will accept the contract after finishing the job (if it's a quick edit).

This initially appears quite nice and respectful, but I am noticing that it seems to be when they are actually not as confident as they appear to be, don't finish the job hours after expected, and then you can't leave them a review if it's not up to standards. 


Preston's avatar
Preston H Community Member

April: I have had exactly the same experience that you described with these job applicants sending their Skype IDs and asking for mine.

 

Even when I post detailed, brief job postings which include all information needed to comple the job.

 

The applicants send their Skype address and ask to be added to Skype. These are jobs for which absolutely no Skype conversation or interview is necessary.

 

If I contact them to offer them a job, their response typically includes an additional request for my Skype ID. I tell them "no Skype," and ask them to message me if they have any questions. Invariably they ARE able to complete these straightforward jobs without Skype conversations or additional instructions.

April's avatar
April L Community Member

Preston, I'm not the only one then!
I also have lots of people just find me and add me directly on skype... I think I need to change my name on here now!

I had a job start today, but the freelancer finished the job before accepting the contract. The job wasn't done perfect, no where near a 5 star review, but it was finished... Now he has said "I m going to accept contract now and request you for 5 star rating and excellent comments"

Any comments or advice on what I should do here? I am baffled by this comment!

Jennifer's avatar
Jennifer M Community Member


@April L wrote:

Preston, I'm not the only one then!
I also have lots of people just find me and add me directly on skype... I think I need to change my name on here now!

I had a job start today, but the freelancer finished the job before accepting the contract. The job wasn't done perfect, no where near a 5 star review, but it was finished... Now he has said "I m going to accept contract now and request you for 5 star rating and excellent comments"

Any comments or advice on what I should do here? I am baffled by this comment!


lol if it's for writing or logos, you better do a lookup on it. It's probably plagiarized. 

Jennifer's avatar
Jennifer M Community Member

whatever you do, don't give it to them. lol they will hound you constantly until you block them.

 

I had to share a google doc when I was hiring for Udemy and the ones that were terrible or farming out would never go away.

Preston's avatar
Preston H Community Member

re: "I'm going to accept contract now and request you for 5 star rating and excellent comments"

 

This is both unprofessional AND a direct violation of Upwork ToS. A contractor can be suspended for this type of behavior.

Wendy's avatar
Wendy C Community Member

April, this comment says it all -

 

"I think most applicants need to realise the difference between small quick jobs and larger ones that actually need a skype call initiated by the CLIENT."

 

I'm a huge fan of using Skype because I don't do one-off jobs unless they are really large ones such as write a full website or collaborate on a book.  Providers would be far smarter to include a line at the end of their proposals indicating they are amiable to a Skype conversation should the client like.

 

Charlie's avatar
Charlie E Community Member

I totally avoid adding freelancers on Skype unless I intend to work with them long term. 

 

Most will spam the hell out of you by sending "Hello, need any work done" every few days until you delete them.

 

 

Jennifer's avatar
Jennifer M Community Member


@Charlie E wrote:

I totally avoid adding freelancers on Skype unless I intend to work with them long term. 

 

Most will spam the hell out of you by sending "Hello, need any work done" every few days until you delete them.

 

 


Yep. lol This is what happened to me. Don't add freelancers to Skype unless you plan to block them. It was always the farmers from the typical places too. Then if you answer them they will try to make deals after saying "No, I don't want a farmer I want to work directly with a provider." Ugh. It's terrible. 

April's avatar
April L Community Member

Jennifer, no it was just some quick coding edits luckily enough!

I am more careful on hiring for design projects, but was expecting his work to match his reviews. I think they must have been false reviews now thinking about it.

I mentioned in my review that he requested good feedback, still didn't give him a really bad scrore though and just got this:

 

"I would request you to change these comments, no client never gave me less then five stars but you."

LOL. No comment. 


Valeria's avatar
Valeria K Community Member

Hi April,

 

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It's very interesting and valuable. Working without an active contract and requesting perfect feedback is both unacceptable and against Upwork ToS. We'll reach out to the freelancer about that. We always encourage clients to provide honest public and private feedback because it's necessary to maintain transparent and professional marketplace. 

 

~ Valeria
Upwork
April's avatar
April L Community Member

Hi Valeria,
Thank you for your comments. I don't want him to be suspended though... 😕 I'll feel bad!

 

I'm hoping my answers and feedback will help him understand the difference, while allowing him to continue trying to make money professionaly like everyone else...

Cathy's avatar
Cathy C Community Member

When I first started here (recently) I read orientation information and forum posts.  I don't know where, but I do remember someone suggesting that you offer to have a Skype call with the client.  

 

It seemed awkward to me but maybe people from other cultures have read that advice and taken it to an extreme.  We take our culture for granted but others may be struggling to understand our strange ways.  

 

 

John's avatar
John K Community Member

April & Cathy,

 

I commend you both for showing consideration to freelancers from non-western cultures, but doing work without accepting a contract then demanding 5 star feedback is inexcusable. Also whoever ghost writes copy & paste job proposals needs to learn that requesting a client for a skype chat in a proposal is inappropriate.

 

Earlier I claimed including contact info in a cover letter violates TOS; thank you Natasha for correcting me. It's hard to keep up with changes sometimes. Cat Embarassed

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Natasha's avatar
Natasha R Community Member


John K wrote: Also, including one's skype address or any other contact info in a proposal is a TOS violation, so if that happens it should be reported

It's not a TOS violation.

 

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@Natasha R wrote:

John K wrote: Also, including one's skype address or any other contact info in a proposal is a TOS violation, so if that happens it should be reported

It's not a TOS violation.

 

http://screencast.com/t/uPkLFb3w5tI3

 


And this is often used as a door opener to hire outside of Upwork. If you apply to job offers who ask for contact details (and often for CVs) without providing this, very often the client is not interested anymore and you have spent your connects in vain. If you continue observing their activities you can see a lot of interviews and very often no hires. Not to mention a "famous" translation consulting as a good example for this. If clients and freelancers are keen on hiring offside they will find ways to do it but I would not make it so easy for them.

PS: I already hear the outcry of some clients and freelancers...Woman Wink

April's avatar
April L Community Member

John,

Yes, agreed demanding 5 star feedback is inexcusable.

I don't really mind skype address being included in proposals though, if it's at the end and as an option, it's more the systematic requests to discuss even the easiest of projects that bugs me.
And even more so the proposals that ask to skype without even mentioning the job or saying hello.

I guess that shows lack of professionalism and helps everyone else who takes the time land the job though!

Claudia's avatar
Claudia Z Community Member

"And remember, always conduct your interview via video conference (Skype and Google Hangouts are our favorites)!"

 

Module 3: Vetting Profiles and Interviewing Freelancers

John's avatar
John K Community Member


@Claudia Z wrote:

"And remember, always conduct your interview via video conference (Skype and Google Hangouts are our favorites)!"

 

Module 3: Vetting Profiles and Interviewing Freelancers


I'm very glad not every client follows that advice. Cat Very Happy

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