Mary you are a class act.
Always have been and I believe you always will be.
I am especially impressed that as a Southern lady, you haven't mentioned that "Bless your heart" is an insult or proceeds an insult veiled as a compliment in the South. As in "Bless your heart you try so hard"...which means "honey child you are an abject failure."
But as a fellow Southerner, I am chuckling every time I see it and know that you are smiling and shaking your head as only a true Southern lady can.
Because after all, tomorrow is another day.