Martina, thanks for the reply.
I want to clear one point that is, I respect all community members, and they have provided me great insights always, I am grateful to all, who are providing guidance to many, not just me since Upwork does not have a direct support system, so community thread is the only way we can seek guidance, and if you read my first post calmly, you shall understand what I was looking for.
surely, I was looking for advice/guidance, not a judgment which was given to me as 'I was harassing a client', not at all ( i was made a fake promise by the client and I wanted to have guidance), from the last 2 days I was not even chasing this client. but today he came to me out of blue moon, he was ready to perform the final task, which he still did not complete after delivering the files as well. (of that I was sure about his actions of not performing the final formalities and I was seeking guidance)
I know lots of community members are really taking their personal time to guide others and new-comers, and we all need guidance otherwise we will not be posting this openly. So I believe we must not come to a judgment, all community members must remain unbiased and focus on providing correct guidance, and not scanning the character of the person on a single post.
WE MUST HELP, NOT JUDGE, or that may make us like some 'news-channels who are biased to few politicians and keep cleaning their wrong deeds.'
The guidance can only be provided when we see a question/thread with a neutral thought process, being biased for freelancers or clients, both are not appropriate for a healthy environment of the community. I also understand there might be wrong freelancers and there might be wrong clients as well, we all have seen examples in many posts.
I have completed approx 20 or 21 jobs so far, and out of them [6 or 7 Clients paid me a bonus], I assume if 30% of my clients paid me bonus, that says a lot about my character and way of working, Nobody in this world on any platform can force to give a bonus for the job, it comes from inside. (all of them with 5 stars, let's not talk about stars here) but if the point is raised on my character that I intend to harass the client without knowing all the details, it is not appropriate. and that hurts.
I really love this community and grateful to all, but at the same time I feel, I have a right to provide the suggestion, feedback, ask questions, and seek guidance. If my intentions were wrong, I won't be posting it openly.
Yes, people get obsessed with JSS, when it hits (by clients' fault) and when that affects the ranking and earning eventually, then people may get obsessed, I was not, but few clients' actions/behavior and this protocol made me obsessed with JSS, but that does not mean I do not deliver quality work, In fact now I leave no stone unturned to provide quality work before the deadline.
Regards
